You wrote that you didn't want to confirm your reputation for being late, and this reminded me of my boyfriend, who is always late. I know he doesn't drive safely for fear that I will get mad at him again. From now on I want to make sure he's worried about being safe, not about me being mad.

Thank you.

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I can't feel my dick, if that's what you're wondering. I still get erections though. I could have sex, I just wouldn't feel anything, I suppose.

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  oh wow. that sucks, dude. that makes me feel really bad. how do you deal with that? not to pry or anything... jw how that effects you in life and relationships and such. that must really bug you :[/quote]  

 I haven't had a sexual relationship since before the accident, so I'm not sure how it would affect me. I don't masturbate, as there's really no point since I can't feel anything lol.

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Well now I'm interested.

Since you have no feeling down there do you even really get sexual urges anymore? It seems like it hasn't effected you much, so I'm assuming you just lost your sex drive. Otherwise that would be frustrating as hell.

If you did lose your sex drive though I think that'd be a god-send. Sex already muddles up enough of my thoughts and decisions.

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I know that some with spinal injuries lose their sex drive completely, but mine isn't actually that much less. Maybe because I'm a male teen, lol. I just try ignore the thoughts as much as possible, but yeah, can get pretty annoying at times. At least it's taught me some self-control.

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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at
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Quote: from Acid World at 6:36 am on Oct. 7, 2008

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Quote: from Jman19 at 12:10 am on Oct. 7, 2008

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Quote: from phosphorescence at 11:55 pm on Oct. 6, 2008

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Quote: from Jman19 at 2:31 am on Oct. 7, 2008

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I can't feel my dick, if that's what you're wondering. I still get erections though. I could have sex, I just wouldn't feel anything, I suppose.

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  oh wow. that sucks, dude. that makes me feel really bad. how do you deal with that? not to pry or anything... jw how that effects you in life and relationships and such. that must really bug you :[/quote]

  I haven't had a sexual relationship since before the accident, so I'm not sure how it would affect me. I don't masturbate, as there's really no point since I can't feel anything lol.

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 Well now I'm interested.  

 Since you have no feeling down there do you even really get sexual urges anymore? It seems like it hasn't effected you much, so I'm assuming you just lost your sex drive. Otherwise that would be frustrating as hell.  

 If you did lose your sex drive though I think that'd be a god-send. Sex already muddles up enough of my thoughts and decisions.

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I know that some with spinal injuries lose their sex drive completely, but mine isn't actually that much less. Maybe because I'm a male teen, lol. I just try ignore the thoughts as much as possible, but yeah, can get pretty annoying at times. At least it's taught me some self-control.

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So would you have sex...?

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